Do you have a dream of your perfect relationship?! No matter where you are on your journey towards romantic partnership attracting and manifesting your perfect relationship requires a willingness to try some new things. As I guide my clients through the process of shifting the paradigms they have in pace around love, I’ve found that allowing deep love into your life means working through an emotional healing journey. This journey will help you to un-lock your heart-space and free your mind of the patterns has kept you stuck in your past.
Did you know that there are five specific steps that you can take each day to move towards your relationship dreams?! The question is are you willing to tap into, open, and begin to heal our heart space releasing these paradigms? Well, if there is a part of you that answered yes to freeing your heart than I can help. Here are five things that you can do every day to work towards your goal.
- Create your vision.
Creating your vision for a dream relationship starts with a very specific question. “What would you love?” When creating your vision, you’ll want to have a notebook so you can free-write as different thoughts, feelings and traits come to mind. You can start by asking yourself- when it comes to my perfect relationship “What would I love?” If you sense any resistance to that question…you can follow up with “what if it were easy?” Spend some time each day consciously creating your dream partnership.
-How would it feel?
-What kind of things would you do together?
-How would you need to show up to be a match to attract that partner?
-What traits does this partner possess?
As you journal your vision of this relationship continue to read through it. Expand on the elements that feel true to you and perhaps edit/remove the things that feel forced. The more time you spend with this vision the easier it will be to manifest the results in real-time.
- Daily Affirmations.
Here’s the thing, our energy flows where our attention goes. Therefore, a daily affirmation practice is such an extraordinary tool in attracting your dream relationship. The idea of affirming yourself and your vision may seem simple to you…however, when you are confronted with thoughts of past relationship failures or pieces of your heart that you are still healing it is a highly valuable tool!
-start your day off right- meet yourself in the bathroom mirror
-pick 2-3 things about the way you show up in relationships that you want to affirm (I am loving, I am intimate, My heart is open)
-pick 2-3 things that you are looking to affirm from your future partner
-You can also add the phrase- “I am so happy and grateful now that…” to the begging of your affirmations to support with the positive impact.
- Step Out of your Comfort Zone.
As your journey unfolds…you’ll find yourself feeling far more present and almost as though there is a space opening within your heart that wasn’t there before. This is the BEST time to start stepping outside of your comfort Zone. Start to thing about some things that you would love to do that perhaps before you weren’t open too. Whether it’s joining a hiking meet-up or taking yourself out for a self-date to your favorite restaurants…doing things that are outside of your comfort zone will promote personal-growth as well as, open you up to new ways of meeting people/potential partners.
- Daily Meditation.
Let’s face it: sometimes no matter how committed to our vision we become we come up against feelings of inadequacy. Moments of fear, doubt, worry or the experience of just not being good enough are to be expected from the part of our thinking that remembers the times of our past. In these moments I suggest you turn to meditation. Taking just 15 minutes each day to quiet the thoughts of the mind and connect to the spiritual side of your nature will do wonders.
One approach to meditation could look like:
-finding a comfortable seat
-close your eyes
-breath in deep for 3 counts- perhaps even while recalling one of your daily affirmations.
-breath out for 5 counts-perhaps while setting an intention for yourself and your vision.
- Shine your light!
Remember that child that you used to be?! I’m sure we can all think back to a time in our life when things were simple, and it was easy to be vulnerable and open. Shining your light is all about making time for play! Blast your favorite music and let yourself dance around the room. Serenade yourself in the shower. Walk barefoot in the rain. Laugh. Now, this doesn’t mean that life is always a dream or that you’ll always remember to smile…it simply means your connecting to that inner child…that space where you glow and letting that be a part of your daily practice. Don’t sweat the small stuff…those are the moments to be playful.
An open-heart space allows for us to be authentically who we are, and it also allows us to experience the joy of deep connection, love, fun and peace.
If you’re looking for a guide to support you in creating a life that you truly love, I, Donna Broadwell, CHt., CMT am here to serve. I am proud to be a Certified Hypnotherapist, Certified Life Coach, Reiki Master, Teacher, and Imagery Master. I get to live my dream of abundance and specializes in serving others to experience the same! If you would love to grow and expand into new ways of living your best life feel invited to connect with me for a complimentary strategy call https://donnabroadwell.com/